In our consultations we would like to create the opportunity to approach one another, speak openly and come into contact with our own feelings.
A healthy relationship is based on love, interest and the willingness to see the other person and take them seriously. It is also important to recognise your own expectations and fears and to communicate openly.
In our counseling sessions, we help you to find a personal and honest language. This allows you to express yourself authentically - from the heart while using our mind.
GOING NEW WAYS TOGETHER
Couples therapy in Berlin Charlottenburg
Turning loving feelings into loving behaviour
New perspectives in couples counseling help us to approach each other. Seeing and recognising your partner can overcome existing rifts and create space for a mutual growth process. Our couples therapy in Berlin offers a trusting space in which understanding, acceptance and development take centre stage.
Meeting each other openly and lovingly as a couple
Every relationship is unique and requires individual solutions. With our clear focus on communication and mutual understanding, we promote an environment in which you really see and hear each other. This allows you to recognise and break through recurring patterns of conflict and bring new ways of thinking and acting into your relationship.
We believe that mutual recognition and appreciation are the basis for a fulfilling relationship. Our work strengthens both individual self-esteem and the shared self-image within the partnership.
When is couples therapy useful?
It is never too early to seek support, couples therapy is not just for crises. When communication becomes more difficult, feelings of distance arise or closeness dwindles, early counseling can be very valuable.
However, it is advisable to seek help at the latest when unresolved conflicts, communication problems, emotional distance, infidelity, sexual dissatisfaction or uncertainties about the future together put a strain on the relationship.
Discover new ways of communication and closeness
We work on your issues right from the first appointment - the first session is often particularly effective. ‘Why am I here and what do I hope to gain from working together?’ - these questions make personal issues visible and tangible. What can I specifically change? This insight gives everyone the opportunity to actively work on their own change and thus on the relationship.
We will guide you through this process with empathy and appreciation. After just two to three sessions, personal development and growth processes often become apparent that help to resolve entrenched problems. In the long term, we offer you the safe space to continuously nurture and develop your relationship.
Each couple counseling session lasts 90 minutes. Sessions usually take place every 2 to 3 weeks, but weekly sessions are also possible for urgent issues.
Would you like to get to know one of us in advance? We can arrange a free online introductory meeting (optional).
YOUR WAY TO CLARITY AND CHANGE
Individual counseling - the change starts with you
We support you in clarifying relationship issues - even if you are starting out alone.
It's not necessarily easy to change a relationship on your own. Sometimes only one of the partners recognises the need for support in the relationship, or the other is not yet ready for couples therapy. In these cases, we offer individual counseling that gives you the opportunity to work on your relationship issues alone and to recognise and use your own potential for change.
In focus - change, clarity and direction for your relationship
In our individual counseling sessions, we focus entirely on your own possibilities and your perspectives in the relationship. This may involve improving the partnership or clarifying whether a joint path is the right one in the long term. You will gain clarity about how you react to conflicts, what your needs and boundaries are and how you yourself can contribute to improving your relationship. Through conscious self-reflection and targeted exercises, we will help you to better understand the patterns and dynamics in your relationship and to develop your own courses of action.
Changes in your partnership through your own development
Even if your partner is not present, your change can create a dynamic in the relationship. You discover new perspectives and behaviours that help you to deal with stressful issues differently and to position yourself clearly and authentically within your relationship. Individual counseling offers space to clarify questions and identify possible steps to strengthen the relationship. At the same time, we support you in making a conscious decision as to whether and how you want to continue the relationship.
A safe space for personal issues
Individual counseling is also available for personal issues that are independent of your relationship. Whether professional challenges, personal growth processes or insecurities - we offer you a trusting space in which you can gain clarity, recognise your resources and develop new perspectives.
Our work strengthens you - in your partnership and for yourself
Self-reflection, personal responsibility and the desire for development are the cornerstones of our work. Together we will work out your personal goals and create a path that will strengthen your relationship in the long term and promote your personal growth.
Get to know us
„Love, a sense of responsibility, the ability to deal with conflict, understanding and the will for personal development - this is what we work with in our consultations.“
Fiona Grabow
Family- and couples therapist after Jesper Juul & Helle Jensen
Four-year training at the German-Danish Institute for Family Therapy and Counseling (DDIF)
One year training “From Obedience to Responsibility” at the German-Danish Institute for Family Therapy and Counseling (DDIF)
Many years of counseling expertise with extensive experience
Regular supervision sessions
Married to Daniel and mother of our two children
Daniel Grabow
Family- and couples therapist after Jesper Juul & Helle Jensen
Four-year training at the German-Danish Institute for Family Therapy and Counseling (DDIF)
Extensive counseling experience from numerous years of counseling
Regular supervision sessions
Longstanding entrepreneur in the digital sector
Married to Fiona and father of our two children
Book an appointment - free introductory meeting
We look forward to your enquiry and are excited to hear what moves you. We offer our consultations in German and English - flexible and tailored to your needs.











Our rooms in Berlin Charlottenburg-Wilmersdorf
Our consultation rooms for couples therapy, family and individual counseling are directly on the Ku’damm, near Oliver Platz, ideally accessible in Berlin Wilmersdorf.
Kurfürstendamm 61, 10707 Berlin
Transport connections:
Adenauer Platz underground station (U7)
Bus routes (101, 109, 110, X10, M19, M29)
Quickly accessible via the A100 ring road
Link to Google Maps
“THE MORE PRESSURE I CREATE, THE MORE RESISTANCE I GENERATE.”
Jesper Juul
Family counseling
Everyone wants to feel valuable in their family. Creating community and a feeling of belonging is usually only possible when all family members are included. If only one does not feel well in the family, it is necessary that everyone participates in the solution together. That's why it's important to us, that the whole family is involved in the counseling process.
Patchwork
In patchwork families, as in other families, different parenting concepts often collide. What role do you play as an adult in relation to the non-biological child? How do you manage to see yourself as a bonus mother or father and also take in the children as a gain in your own life?
Living together with teenagers
For parents the teenage years are a time of letting go. But it is just as important to be present. This often becomes a balancing act for parents and teenagers. Engaging openly with your child and not believing that you are in the right and know better, enables an equitable dialogue.
During puberty parents are often not satisfied with their parenting. They often try to get it right at the last minute by taking extreme measures. But teenagers find this unfair and it usually does not work.
„Recognition is an attitude for us and means using all of our self, feelings as well as intellect. It’s not about external actions or techniques, but about something that comes from within.“